I am in the same boat as u matt.
I have been using 17* 4 wood for years with either a 21* ute or driving iron.
Recently a picked up a yammy 3 w and got a crazy f19 5w which is 18.5..
Also picked up an ibrid 20 which i should have next week.
I have never been good with lower lofted hybrids, never got used to having a 5w either.
Hopefully different thisntime around